Creative Protocols for D/s: the “HAWT”
Why would you go to the trouble of being kinky at all if it wasn’t “hawt”? Graydancer explains that this isn’t necessarily always sexual, but should always be gratifying in some way. He also explains...
View ArticleCreative Protocols for D/s: Quality of Life
Since so much of D/s is oriented around service, it is a pretty natural fit for a protocol to improve the quality of life for those in a relationship. Graydancer points out that this is a two-way...
View ArticleCreative Protocols for D/s: Protocol Generation Machine Part 1
Now that the elements are all in place, Graydancer starts an exercise that you can do yourself to create your own meaningful protocols. Step one is to create a list of the kinds of things you like...
View ArticleCreative Protocols for D/s: Protocol Generation Machine Part 2
Graydancer’s serva Naiia joins him for part 2, where they shuffle up each category and let the resulting strange ideas – “IRONING COCK EAGERLY”, for example – inspire new protocols they can choose to...
View ArticleCreative Protocols for D/s: When a Protocol is Wrong for You
A protocol doesn’t have to last forever. Life happens, changes come, and many times the protocol you’re following no longer serves the relationship. Graydancer talks about how to tell if that’s the...
View ArticleCreative Protocols for D/s: Environment of Win
Now that you know how to create new protocols that support your D/s, Graydancer encourages you to use this skill to create an “environment of win”, where rather than you having to work at your D/s you...
View ArticleControl Through Protocol: Kink for Self Growth
Sure, kink and D/s is supposed to be sexy, but why can’t it be useful, too? Master Rook and slave rook describe how they’ve used their protocols to accomplish personal goals, learn new skills, and in...
View ArticleControl Through Protocol: Check-ins & Making Adjustments
No protocol is set in stone, and life has a way of changing the way things can be controlled. For that matter, sometimes the things that feed our kinks need to be changed. Master Rook and slave rook...
View ArticleControl Through Protocol: Protocols for Dominants
Believe it or not, all dominant kinksters aren’t perfect the minute someone kneels in front of them. Master Rook talks in this clip about how the responsibility for maintaining and checking in on...
View ArticleControl Through Protocol: Implementation
Coming up with ideas for protocols is relatively easy. What’s more complex is trying to see how you can best make them real! Sometimes it is best to figure out exactly how deep you want to dive in,...
View ArticleControl Through Protocol: Long Distance
Master Rook and slave rook didn’t always have the luxury of living together. They talk in this clip about how to make use of tech and protocols to help evoke a feeling of control even over...
View ArticleControl Through Protocol: Positions & Poses
In this “bonus” clip, Master Rook and slave rook demonstrate how they use subtle hand signals and posture or position to enhance their feelings of D/s. slave rook not only shows the positions but also...
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Going Down Hard: Dominance & Oral Sex
Here’s a pop quiz: when is is appropriate for a dominant to eat pussy or suck cock? The correct answer is: “Any time they want to.*” If you hesitated at all, you might still be operating under the...
View ArticleCreative Protocols for D/s: Quality of Life
Since so much of D/s is oriented around service, it is a pretty natural fit for a protocol to improve the quality of life for those in a relationship. Graydancer points out that this is a two-way...
View ArticleCreative Protocols for D/s: Protocol Generation Machine Part 1
Now that the elements are all in place, Graydancer starts an exercise that you can do yourself to create your own meaningful protocols. Step one is to create a list of the kinds of things you like...
View ArticleCreative Protocols for D/s: Protocol Generation Machine Part 2
Graydancer’s serva Naiia joins him for part 2, where they shuffle up each category and let the resulting strange ideas – “IRONING COCK EAGERLY”, for example – inspire new protocols they can choose to...
View ArticleCreative Protocols for D/s: When a Protocol is Wrong for You
A protocol doesn’t have to last forever. Life happens, changes come, and many times the protocol you’re following no longer serves the relationship. Graydancer talks about how to tell if that’s the...
View ArticleCreative Protocols for D/s: Environment of Win
Now that you know how to create new protocols that support your D/s, Graydancer encourages you to use this skill to create an “environment of win”, where rather than you having to work at your D/s you...
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