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Going Down Hard: Dominance & Oral Sex
Here’s a pop quiz: when is is appropriate for a dominant to eat pussy or suck cock? The correct answer is: “Any time they want to.*” If you hesitated at all, you might still be operating under the...
View ArticleCreative Protocols for D/s: Quality of Life
Since so much of D/s is oriented around service, it is a pretty natural fit for a protocol to improve the quality of life for those in a relationship. Graydancer points out that this is a two-way...
View ArticleCreative Protocols for D/s: Protocol Generation Machine Part 1
Now that the elements are all in place, Graydancer starts an exercise that you can do yourself to create your own meaningful protocols. Step one is to create a list of the kinds of things you like...
View ArticleCreative Protocols for D/s: Protocol Generation Machine Part 2
Graydancer’s serva Naiia joins him for part 2, where they shuffle up each category and let the resulting strange ideas – “IRONING COCK EAGERLY”, for example – inspire new protocols they can choose to...
View ArticleCreative Protocols for D/s: When a Protocol is Wrong for You
A protocol doesn’t have to last forever. Life happens, changes come, and many times the protocol you’re following no longer serves the relationship. Graydancer talks about how to tell if that’s the...
View ArticleCreative Protocols for D/s: Environment of Win
Now that you know how to create new protocols that support your D/s, Graydancer encourages you to use this skill to create an “environment of win”, where rather than you having to work at your D/s you...
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